Are Pick Up Lines The Kiss of Death?

Here is the unvarnished truth about how to flirt-- and flirting tips in general.

You know, like most social activities (flirting tips is a social activity for a lot of us) have one basic thread in common - and that is to have fun. Sound too simple? Consider that when people see you having fun, you suggest to them that:

1. You are confident 2. You are in control 3. You don't care what other people think

Now, really - doesn't this describe the kind of guy that women want to be with - and actually everyone likes this kind of company. This is it, guys. This is the guy that women are attracted to - time after time.

Another rule (secret-- for the same reason as above) is not to worry about the results you are going to get from the flirting process. Don't care-- should be a hard and fast rule of flirting. You know why? It is when you don't care what the outcome is going to be - that it turns out so well. It is some kind of rule of nature that hardly ever fails.

An interesting statement that is both amusing, and very, very 'on the mark' is: Flirting and teasing are practically the same. Now, let me ask you, "Who doesn't like to be teased and flirted with a good part of the time?"

OK, there are some, but so few that you don't have to worry about them ...

An interesting point revolves around perception of terms. Do 'flirting and pickup lines 'mean the same thing to both sexes? Here is the answer:

• Women-- Call it 'flirting ' • Men - Call it 'Pick up lines '

That clarify it? It really is a terminology thing-- but, be assured they mean the same (in most cases). You see, if we carry it one step further, we find:

• 'Pickup 'is serious and sex-oriented, and is offensive to most women (unless they are the ones picking-up) • Women love to flirt, but hate the thought of being 'picked up '

See how complicated it can be?

So, don't overcomplicate it. Just follow these few guidelines:

1. Flirting with a humorous edge is always acceptable 2. Have fun with flirting, but learn how to do it for the kind of results that will catapult you to the next level. 3. Don't worry about the outcome (that will take care of itself-- I promise) 4. Keep it 'situational relevant' (Hey, isn't that an impressive guideline? It just means that if you are in a concert, don't talk about the last time you witnessed a Jell-O wrestling bout with two naked beauties) 5. Leave First-- This is great. Don't let her leave first. You leave first-- and your value will go up immensely.

I challenge you to think about any girlfriend you ever had - that didn't start out with flirting. I'll bet you can't do it!

Closing thought: The Better You Are with Flirting-- The More gorgeous gal you will get.

When you learn how to flirt - really learn - LIfe Becomes More Exciting!


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Ron Vicari is a skilled conversationalist - and brings the art of communication to a simple, fun adventure. He firmly believes that everything we do in our lives revolves around effective communication - whether it be in a social setting such as a dinner party, or in a boardroom - or in a bedroom.
Good Conversation Skills make Good Relationships!
Find him at: http://badpickupline.net/


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