Monday, January 30, 2012

How to Attract a Better Future

Forget resolutions.

They're usually based on magical thinking, wishful thinking, and lack any real commitment or plan.

We're already weeks into the new year and you've probably already forgotten your resolutions.

Well, so has everyone else. Welcome to the club.

That's why resolutions are for wimps.

A better choice is to attract your new reality with what I call Positive Predictions.

It's a fun and creative exercise that allows you to visualize the future, contemplate unlimited possibilities, and actually begin to attract the new reality to you.

Of course, all too often individuals fixate on negative future predictions. 1984, Y2K and 2012, are just a few of the dates that come to mind. It seems there's always an apocalyptic event looming on the horizon. Unfortunately, when these dates come and go without incident, they are quickly replaced by new, even more menacing predictions. Ho hum.

There's a better way. Instead of imaging a doom and gloom scenario, let's imagine a happy and prosperous one. Let's make 2010 the year of Positive Predictions. For example, here's a sampling of the Positive Predictions I've added to my list for 2010:

Buoyed largely by the creative ideas of marketers, inventors and entrepreneurs, the United States explodes out of the current recession by harnessing several new technologies. People experience prosperity again!

Alternative sources of energy and innovative automobile technologies begins to reach a level of critical mass, resulting in dramatically lower demand for fossil fuels. We exit 2010 at an average price of $1.90 per gallon of gas — and falling.

I climbed to the top of my 15 foot climbing rope with my arms only and it becomes an inspiring YouTube video.

My free book Attract Money Now is translated into every major language, is downloaded by tens of millions of people worldwide, and becomes a New York Times bestseller after a publisher pays me a huge seven-figure advance for the rights to

Operation Yes makes a major impact in ending homelessness in America.

I launched the first ever Billionaire Bugatti Mastermind.

The Attract Miracles Community reaches critical mass and transforms the planet with a single thought projected around the world - by thought alone.

I went on David Letterman, Jay Leno and Jon Stewart's TV shows, showing my incredible Alien Guitar.

My hydrogen-gas super car, The Scorpion was delivered mid-year and got front page news across the world as the first truly sexy environmentally friendly muscle car. I love that car!

As you can see, this exercise is exciting. You might also note the "predictions" are written as if they are after-the-fact reports. It's based on a process I call "Nevillizing," named after famed mystic Neville Goddard. I discuss the practice of "Nevillizing" your goals in both The Attractor Factorand more recently in Attract Money Now.

"Nevillizing your goal" is imagining or visualizing what life would be like if your goal were already achieved today. The objective is to make an emotional connection to your future. You pretend it has already happened. This allows your subconscious mind to believe it's possible, as well as to program the Universe to bring that vision into your reality.

Neville himself said -

"There is only one cause, and that is consciousness. Your consciousness is the center from which your world mirrors and echoes the state you presently occupy."

Consider the act of making a prediction. Generally, meaningful predictions require that you step out of your comfort zone and take a risk. I'm not talking about unimportant predictions that anyone can make. I'm talking about "worthy" predictions that make your subconscious mind take notice and say "Wow, this guy/gal isn't fooling around!"

Contrast this to the standard practice of creating New Year's resolutions. If you are like many individuals, you may write down a list of resolutions for the year. This ritual has become so routine that very little emotion if any permeates to the subconscious. Not to mention there's virtually no personal accountability tied to the resolution.

Need proof?

You need look no further than your local health-club or gym. I'd be willing to wager that most are bursting at the seams with new members. Check back with these same clubs in July and you'll notice that their attendance has dropped back to late 2009 levels.

Generally, resolutions are easy to forget or dismiss. However, Nevillized Positive Predictions have much stronger emotional ties and longevity. They will begin the process of attracting a new reality based on the Law of Attraction and the power of intention.

So here's my personal challenge to you: Create a list of Positive Predictions. Do it today. Right now.

Have fun with it. Like mine, some can focus on world events. Others can be personal challenges that really stretch your boundaries. If you have already created a list of resolutions, you can easily convert them into predictions. Just remember to make them worthy. And be sure to write them as if they already happened. And record your excitement.

A great way to ensure that your Positive Predictions become a reality is through Mastermind Groups and Personal Coaching. Both can provide the necessary accountability, access to creative ideas, and insights to make your wildest predictions come true.

Here's something most people don't know:

Years ago I walked into my Mastermind Group at the time and stated that I wanted to be in a movie. Not just any movie, and not as some fly on the wall. I wanted a noteworthy part.

At the time I had no movie experience or connections. But I stated my goal and let my Mastermind Group support my intention with their good thoughts.

That's it.

I didn't try to get an acting job.

I didn't send out resumes or sexy photos of myself.

I just waited, expecting my miracle, and ready to take action when inspiration or opportunity appeared.

Three months later a woman named Rhonda Byrne read my book, The Attractor Factor, and called me, asking if I'd like to be in her movie, called The Secret.

The rest, as they say, is history.

This is the power of Positive Predictions, Mastermind Groups, and Personal Coaching.

There are many excellent coaching programs available. Take for example, my Miracles Coaching program - we've helped hundreds of individuals both formulate and achieve their goals and predictions over the last four years.

The Miracles Coaching will provide you with a personal coach that can help custom tailor a formula to achieve your goals. Also, you will have access to well over 100 courses and supporting curriculum. This is the perfect way to kick-start your 2010.

Or consider my Rolls-Royce Phantom Mastermind. This is an ideal venue if you're interested in personalized brainstorming and strategizing as you ride in the lap of luxury. Many have found this to be the perfect catalyst for developing inspired ideas. (ABC News is covering the one I'm doing this Monday with Jennifer Nicole Lee.) Furthermore, the Phantom Mastermind may be a prerequisite for those wanting to attend the Billionaire Bugatti Mastermind.

Whatever you decide, remember to "Dare Something Worthy."

Your future begins right now.


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Dr. Joe Vitale is the star of the hit movie, "The Secret." He is also the author of way too many bestselling books to mention here. To name a few: The Attractor Factor, Zero Limits and his latest, Attract Money Now. He's also recorded many Nightingale Conant audio programs, and most recently, "The Abundance Paradigm." He also created a Miracles Coaching program and much more! For more information on Joe Vitale, go to: http://www.mrfire.com


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How To Find The Right Girl - You Can Never Settle

Finding the right girl for you is a difficult task. Even if you have an active dating life it can be a real challenge to find someone that you have that chemistry with.

You may go out with nice girls, and you may think the world of them but if there isn't that connection and chemistry it is all for not. If you find yourself doubting her and questioning the connection that is there or is not there then you have to move on.

When You Do Find The Right Girl

When you do find the right woman for you, you will have no doubt and you will not question your feelings towards her. You'll be ecstatic about her and want to spend all your time with her.

It is clear and apparent that many people never find the right person as evident by our high divorce rate, infidelity, and unhappy people in relationships. It's not always your fault or her fault. Sometimes the spark just isn't there and rather than force a relationship you need to recognize that you should find someone where the spark is there.

Is It You?

While you may be out on a date with a really nice and genuine woman, if you don't feel the connection, it's hard to imagine how you could be happy in a relationship with her 10 years down the road or let alone 2 months down the road. Often when you are out with a nice girl you may wonder is it just me? Am I hung up on an ex?

Unfortunately it really doesn't matter what the problem is be it you or her, the reality is the chemistry is not present. Sometimes it might be you and other times it might be her. More frequently it is neither of you but simply the connection doesn't exist.

How To Know When You Find The Right Person

When you find the right person for you, you will feel it in your gut. You will be willing to compromise and do things that she wants to do just so you can spend time together. When you leave her you will only be thinking about when the next time is that you can get together. You will spend time thinking about her when you aren't together and you will genuinely want to see her happy!

Clearly it is so much easier to create and stay in a relationship because it is convenient and does not require you to go out into the world and face possible rejection and even humiliation. However to truly achieve happiness and satisfaction in a relationship you have to do things that aren't always easy.

In sum, if you continue to search and not settle for a woman that is willing to just date you, you can find happiness with the right person for you. I really like the quote "If life was boring what would I do with myself."


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Sunday, January 29, 2012

Boost Moral For The Whole Office With Employee Recognition Awards

Office moral is often a sticking point for employers. It takes only one person to completely trash the moral of everyone in the office. If the office is small, it could even affect the employers. You may not want to fire the person causing the poor morale because he or she is an excellent worker. You can try speaking to the person about his or her attitude, but that is often just a Band-Aid. A few days later that person may be making disparaging remarks again.

Instead of going through the ups and downs of having a few good days with that person, then reverting to bad days, try boosting employee moral for everyone in the office. You can use several ways to boost employee moral, including using employee recognition awards. The awards could be for many things, including:

• Top customer satisfaction award
• Most productive employee
• Best Salesperson Award
• Most helpful employee
• Time without taking a sick day
• Most improvement in work product

You'll want to have a different design for each award so each recipient will feel extra special. For an employee that brought in the most sales, you might have the certificate printed on an "Excellence" certificate. For someone who went above and beyond, you might use a certificate that says "Above and Beyond" and has stars decorating the certificate.

When you use employee recognition awards, your employees tend to compete to get the notoriety of having the award and a good mark in their employee file. This also benefits your business in other ways:

• Employees are friendlier to customers.
• Employees get along better with co-workers.
• Employees are more productive.
• Employees are not in-fighting with each other.
• Employees spend more time with customers, which could encourage the customers to spend more.
• Customers enjoy coming into a workplace — whether office or retail — where the employees are happy.

Don't overdo the team-member appreciation awards. Targeting one area that needs improvement encourages your employees to work harder, but giving an award for everything causes employees to try for awards where they don't have to make changes in attitude or productivity.

You might have an award for a targeted area, plus one "for fun" award. For example, if you have an office that needs an attitude adjustment, use the productivity award, plus add an award for best attendance. If you have an office where the employees have a good attitude most of the time, but sales suffer because employees are "ho-hum" about their jobs, use the customer service award and most improvement in work product awards.You can always add additional awards later, or you can change the awards offered on a timed basis — try to change awards offered each year.


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Today I Will...

When you say, "Today I will…", can you feel the promise and possibility in these words?

There is an openness to them. A chance to start anew. An opportunity to fine-tune the way you are doing things or to do more of what is working well in your life.

These words can offer insights, creativity, promise, hope, excitement, love, peace, understanding, compassion, forgiveness, friendship, prosperity, and a second chance.

When you begin your day with affirmations of intentions and positivity, it is a reminder that you are responsible for upholding and seeing them through the best you can.

These phrases can transform stressful, problematic, and worrisome days, into ones of peace, ease, and promise.

As you well know, unexpected happenings can occur at any time during the day. Some will be awesome and others less than desirable, to say the least.

You just never know how things are going to unfold throughout your day, but what you do know is, "Today I will…".

The greatest part about these three words is they begin your day in a positive way!

They can pertain to specific goals, ways you would like to be or improve, or how you would like your day to be, or all encompassing.

You have a blank page where you can create what you would like to see occur. A reminder of how you can be the best you can be.

More importantly than saying the words is actually following through with them.

Don't beat yourself up if you fall short on some or all of them. See them as a learning experience, and what you can do differently to help you to grow.

Notice why, or what, is holding you back from what you are intending and then begin again.

"Today I will…"

I will put a sign on the door, "Gone Fishing".
I will be best I can be in every situation.
I will move through one problem at a time, and imagine and work towards possibilities.
I will spend more time understanding myself and others.
I will be forgiving of myself and others.
I will spend time outdoors admiring and connecting with nature.
I will write down the things I am grateful for.
I will breathe deeply often.
I will be calm, gentle, and kind in my words and actions.
I will take time to connect with God, (what you understand this to be).
I will slow down and look around me, and not race through my day.
I will make time for me to relax, be still, and listen.
I will be happy and smile often.
I will adjust my attitude when needed to one of love towards what is occurring.
I will see light where I see darkness.
I will love openly, honestly, and unconditionally.
I will be supportive of myself and others.
I will be patient.
I will not worry and trust that all will be as it needs to be.
I will help another however I can.
I will agree to disagree.
I will let go of past resentments, grievances, and misgivings.
I will hug someone.
I will laugh and/or play.
I will talk less and listen more.
I will open my eyes and ears to the beauty in the world.
I will not blame, complain, or justify.
I will take care of myself. I will exercise, eat healthy, and drink lots of water.
I will try to understand another rather than judge him/her.
I will love and be grateful for the work I have and do it to the best of my abilities.

As you can see, the list can go on and on of what your intentions can be for your day. What's important is not the quantity, but the quality and meaning of them for you.

They can pertain to just about anything. The purpose of saying these three words is to help you grow to be a better person and to remind you of what is truly important.

The easiest way to create meaningful positive phrases is to sit quietly at the end of the day and notice where you still need a fine-tuning.

Where do you feel you are struggling? What is creating added stress or anxiety in your day?

How can you respond to yourself, others, and situations in a more positive, peaceful, kind, forgiving, and loving way?

What are some things you would like to do and aren't making time to do?

At the end of the day, what really matters to you?

The areas, and/or people in your life where you feel negativity, or stuck, or that you are not living up to your full potential, are great indications of places to set your intentions.

They are opportunities for you to move forward in love and to expand "who" you truly are.

Then begin writing down "Today I will…"

You can repeat the same intentions everyday or write new ones in regards to the day you just had.

Revise your phrases as you continue to grow.

Remember, you are learning as you go; be patient, and willing to work towards being a better you.
Use these techniques to assist you in making the most of your days and being the best you can be.


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Kimberley Cohen is the Founder, Facilitator and Personal Insight Coach of The Insight Technique. She founded the Insight Technique - Your Insight to genuine Happiness, Purpose and Prosperity to assist herself and others in transforming limiting mindsets.

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Saturday, January 28, 2012

How to Talk Dirty to Your Boyfriend: Things to Say to Your Boyfriend

Copyright (c) 2012 Chris J Roberts

Learning how to talk dirty to your boyfriend is easy. The most important thing you need to know is that talk is cheap and actions speak louder.

If you want to be successful at talking dirty to your boyfriend you need to be able to follow through with the actions.

Things to say to your boyfriend

If you tell your boyfriend you want to make wild passionate love to him, and then don't fall asleep on the couch! All that you achieved is aggregation and disappointment. If you do that one too many times he is going to start looking for a woman who has a little more energy at the end of the day.

Make sure the time is right to talk dirty and if you can't follow through with the actions at that time make sure he knows how you're planning to, this will lead to anticipation and anticipation leads to excitement and awesome sex.

It's not important what the things you say but how you say it. A simple "I can't wait to get you out of those clothes." Whispering it in his ear just before dinner will give him something to think about. This works real well if you're having dinner with people you really don't want to be with. It can take the edge off and your dinner will go much smoother and quicker and neither of you will leave in a bad mood because you have something to look forward to.

Make sure when you are talking dirty to your boyfriend you put a little emotion or feeling into what you're saying. If you just look at him and say "I want to undress you with my teeth." He might not be too thrilled with your dirty talk. You need to say it like you mean it and plan on following through with it!

An important note worth mentioning is there is a proper place and time to talk dirty to a guy. Some women say they talk dirty to their boyfriends when their favorite sports team is losing. While it may work for some it doesn't work for everyone, in my girlfriend's case it puts her husband in an even worse mood. The same is true when he has had a bad day at work. He's thinking about how to fix a problem and here you are only annoying him by suddenly talking dirty to him. Trying to talk dirty to him at the wrong time will not work. It makes him think you are self-centered and selfish.

The best advice I can offer you about talking dirty to your boyfriend is to make sure the timing is right otherwise the things you say are going in one ear and out the other!


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Increase Your Exposure On The Internet Now

You do not know everything you can about internet marketing. Between the breadth of the field and the constant innovation of internet marketers, anyone trying to run an online business can learn more about how to market their company (or themselves). This article will give you a few quick tips for improving your internet marketing efforts.

Convince your customers that your product is simple to use and simple to purchase. Use words like "easy" and "simple" in your advertising. People don't want anything that is going to be difficult to use or give them headaches. Always make sure to make things as easy for them as possible.

Keep up with the changes of the Internet if you hope to be successful as a marketer. Every time a new mega-popular site like Twitter shows up, you need to expand your reach to these places. Never stay the same despite the net's evolution. You need to walk right along with it, because your customers are going that way with or without you.

When marketing an online product or business, provide incentives to order quickly, such as free shipping to anyone who orders before a certain date. You can even have this date keep changing in your ad copy to draw in more customers. If customers feel that there is something to be had by ordering today, they will be more likely to buy right away rather than deliberating about it.

Internet Marketing

Creating your own style is very important to your Internet marketing success, so remember not to copy another business's style if you hope to make it. If you simply rip off the style of your competitors, customers are going to go with your competitor. They have the edge because they've been around longer, so be sure to create your own style.

To get really good at Internet marketing, never stop learning. No one knows everything there is to know about successful marketing, so there's always more you can learn. Also, since no one is perfect, there will always be marketing skills you personally can improve. If you put sincere effort into improvement, you'll definitely improve -- and naturally, the better you are at Internet marketing, the more money you'll be able to make from it.

Internet Marketing Business

An internet marketing business can be very lucrative but don't forget that it is also susceptible to taxes. When you are trying to plan a budget and look at potential profit and expenses don't forget this fact. This can make a serious difference in the amount of profit that your company makes.

Knowing who your competitors are can be one of the most important factors in making your internet marketing business successful. Once you have identified who your competitors are, analyze what you see as their strengths and weaknesses. Then develop a strategy to make you business strong where they are weak.

Internet Marketing Strategies

There are a lot of different internet marketing strategies. You should try many different strategies until you find one (or more) that works for you. Continue to try out different marketing strategies; this will be the only way you know what will work for you and what will not.

A mailing list is a venerable tool in internet marketing, but it is not so old as to be obsolete. Maintaining an email address database of past, current, and potential customers still offers huge advantages in marketing. Internet marketing strategies change, and a tool which has no use today may become vital tomorrow.

Fortunately, there is plenty of information about how to do better internet marketing. You need not study the topic intensively, either. These little hints are just the beginning. There are fast, easily-digestible ideas for improving your internet marketing performance, everywhere online. Keep your eyes peeled and you can keep your marketing results, improving all the time.


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Friday, January 27, 2012

A Smart New And Assured You.

Almost all of us have our self esteem influenced by how we look and feel. If you have ever felt somewhat short of self-assurance then there is a strong possibility that it had something connected with doubts or maybe a lack of security regarding your appearance. Fear not, because the resolution to your anxieties is at hand. We must consider some of the most effective ways of sorting this out and feeling a tad superior about yourself.

Shoes That Make You Taller
Simply getting fractionally larger could make such an incredible difference. Just purchase some height boosting footwear for an instantaneous advancement in size. Really well created styles are very skillfully put together that no one else can have the faintest concept that that you are utilizing a small amount of additional assistance to feel great. Using the proper shoe for you, your self-assurance will rise and you will have no worries concerning using them for all events.

An alteration of Design.
Perhaps you have in no way paid a whole lot of attention to the garments you wear previously however it may just be time to do so. Maybe all you need to do is actually have some improved fitting and more stylish garments to increase your confidence. Perhaps you happen to be believing that this is actually too basic, therefore just try a very few fresh pieces to start out and see if they make you feel better. If the top quality attire really do allow you to look and feel great then just expand your wardrobe steadily. Your pals, loved ones and work colleagues will notice the transformation and give you some beneficial opinions on it, that will make you feel better still.

Do More Physical exercises and Get Fit
Most likely setting out to become a slimmer, more shapely you will do the trick for getting you back on track. This can be a somewhat more challenging and time consuming as opposed to the other two points even so the lasting effect can make it well worthwhile. Start out by simply working out at home and acquire some assistance and physical exercises from the web and this can be much cheaper than spending money on a health club. Perhaps more painless stands out as the idea of beginning to walk more regularly. As well as finding a far better shape and feeling greater about your image you will additionally acquire quite a few long lasting health improvements from carrying out additional exercise.


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Following Your Heart

The most important organ in the entire human body is the heart. It is responsible for life. With every beat, life-giving blood is brought to every cell. You can survive with a barely-functioning brain, as near-death humans are most often brain dead, but one cannot continue life without a heartbeat.

It is ironic that on top of all the heart's biological importance, it is also credited for human emotions. One's attitude or reaction to anything in life is influenced by how fast or faint the heart beats. Humans feel it in their heart when they are doing right or otherwise. Somehow, happiness and fulfilment is something you feel in "your chest," and so, because of this, we collectively think that it is our heart that rules our humanness.

Throughout life, a person is in the middle of a never-ending search for meaning, for purpose, for happiness. Our heart hopefully leads us to the right direction, so how do we tell if what we feel will bring us to our much-coveted fulfilled life?

We need to make sure our heart is in the right path. Is it telling us to do the correct thing, or does our own heart lead us astray? Sometimes, not everything we want is good. To set a balance, seek guidance through faith. Meditate and think if your emotions are influenced by negativity. If you feel that it is, then quickly reset your heart towards the right direction.

Trust that instinct. Even animals have instincts, but as humans, we have a highly-developed innate sense of right and wrong. Doing what is right gives us deep satisfaction - thus making living not just something we need to do, but something we need to do WELL.

When you follow your heart, there is an internal voice that dictates and rules over your actions. When you know you've followed the inner voice, it becomes hard to understand, but happiness and fulfilment follow. There is an unexplainable feeling of satisfaction when you know you let your heart rule over the more rational factors that affect your decisions. The key is to develop the courage to follow your heart, because most often, following your heart and dreams entails making irrational decisions.

Take the time to sit back and think, have you let your heart rule over your life? Have you followed the instincts that made you happy? If you did, you will slowly realize that you are living a full life - a life full of happiness that you achieved by living life according to what is right, according to what feels good, and according to how you want to go about life..


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Get Over Being Dumped - How to Start Over Again

Copyright (c) 2012 Chris J Roberts

So here you are! Another relationship has gone down the drain and you can consider yourself officially dumped. Definitely not a good feeling finding yourself having to start over again! You might feel better by thinking that you're not the first that is going through this pain of rejection that you are currently feeling, and you're definitely not the last. However as they say, every cloud has a silver lining...Getting over being dumped, if done with a right mindset will do more good to you then bad. There are ways and means that may help you to get on your feet again after a bad break up…So here are a few tips which are not applicable only for the fairer sex, but for both genders.

The first thing you have to do is think ahead and stop living in the past. It's very easy to start overanalyzing and dissecting every part of your relationship, looking for what might have gone wrong. Do accept the mistakes you made and learn from them, such that you don't repeat them in the future. Blaming and trying to find out what you could have done differently, maybe better, is not healthy. Accept your past, and move on positively.

Secondly, try to be alone for a while. Allow yourself to heal, reflect and maybe get to know yourself again; think in what direction you want your life to go. Shutting out family and friends who love you is not what I mean. Why not take a holiday, a weekend break or a quiet retreat? What better way to start over and straightening out your priorities? Whatever you decide to do, taking some time out away from the 'world' is a good idea to help you get over your past and move on in a healthy way. You are getting over the sick feeling of being dumped from a wrong decision you made in life! So, open your mind to make the right decisions ahead.

One of the worst mistakes you can make after getting dumped is to rebound. DON'T. Your target is to get over your last relationship which has caused you all the pain you are feeling right now. Jumping from one relationship into another with a new person doesn't work either. This would mean disaster both for you as well as the other party. So as we said before, first take some time off and get to know yourself again. Set out your targets, priorities and wants and make sure you satisfy these, before you get into a relationship.

Who is happy after a break up? Well I guess no one is, however this does not mean there aren't ways to benefit. Be optimistic in life! If you got dumped, it means you weren't really meant to be with that person, so better now than later when things might get worse. Getting over being dumped is not an easy task, but it's doable! So take a can do approach and I can assure you that you will come out of it feeling stronger! Are you going to let a break up defeat you? Let your inner strength shine through and defeat the break up. Focus on yourself; you are something special; you are worth something. You will always have something to offer.


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Job Interview Techniques

Initially, receiving the phone call from a potential employer to arrange an interview is an exciting and elating experience. Your finely crafted curriculum vitae and relevant history of hard work and experience have rendered you a suitable candidate and you have a shot at selling your skills to a prospective employer; and then the fear sets in. Meeting up with a new person for the first time will always be an uncertain situation, so selling your personality and capabilities using job interview techniques to someone you have only briefly can be challenging indeed.

The key to succeeding in job interviews is preparation in several key areas; mastering each of these before the big day could be your one way ticket to success. So with that in mind, let's see how you could tweak your job interview techniques and catch the eye of potential employers.

Research

One thing employers are certainly looking for is a clear indication that you like the company and want to work there for more than just money. Keep up to date with any recent news about the company and be sure to show this in the form of questions in the interview; if you can come across as well informed about the company's goals and mission statement you're sure to shine through as someone who knows what they want.

Anticipate Questions

There are certain questions that come up commonly in job interviews; if you can anticipate these questions and prepare detailed and well thought out answers, you will carry this skill for years to come. Here are a few typical questions you can expect to hear in most job interviews.

Tell me more about yourself - Here you have the opportunity to make a good impression, try to keep the answer detailed but don't create an opportunity to showboat. Touch on your academic successes or relevant experience from previous jobs, and add what you have taken from these various experiences.

Strengths/weaknesses -Think about your strong points that make you ideal for the job and state previous situations which bode well for you as an employee. Don't choose anything too detrimental as a weakness; something which shows you're modest yet capable, such as "having more to learn about the industry". This shows that even your weakness shows another positive side of you.

What makes you want to work here? - Firstly, don't say "money". That aside, this is another great opportunity to show the research you have done on the company and go into detail about areas you have researched. State what you love about the company and how that reflects on your professional attitude.

It's also worth noting that employers love to hear candidates ask questions about the company and the job role; again, you get to show your interest in the company and the research you have done on them. Be sure to ask if there is anything you can do in preparation the job role, this will show your willingness to learn and impress.

Dress Appropriately

It's fair to say that most people (although they don't like to admit it) will judge another purely through their appearance, so taking some extra time to ensure you are meeting the company's expectations is sure to do you a favour before you have even shaken hands. Clean, polished shoes and well fitted smart clothes with suitable accessories is a water tight combination.

Confidence

Confidence in your job interview has a positive effect on potential employers; be sure to consider this for your job interview techniques. Sit upright, produce a genuine (or at least genuine looking) smile when possible and be sure to speak clearly. Showing confidence in these situations shows your ability to carry this confidence through to tasks you may be set during employment.


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Thursday, January 26, 2012

Making Social Media Work For Your Business

With social media marketing being such an easy plan to implement, it is hard not to just spam the web with all the videos you can. Just as with article marketing, you want to avoid publishing low-quality content that will actually harm your business's reputation. SMM is a plan full of options and temptations, but this article will touch on some of the concepts that help make it work.

To spark feedback and activity in your social media marketing, run polls with interesting questions. Facebook has a good feature for this. Polls often go a little viral within social media, but also serve as good conversation starters with your subscribers and followers. It can also yield treasure troves of statistics you can use to target your demographics better.

YouTube has a huge and active user base and you need to be involved in it for successful social media marketing. Posting videos is a great way to get users involved, but you also have to be involved in the larger community as a whole. Posting comments and talking about other videos related to your industry will attract new users to your profile.

When considering a company blog, don't forget to invite in a guest blogger from time to time. A guest blogger can add new interest to your site and really pick up the conversation. They can help you re-engage an audience if your blog has slowed or stalled, and they might bring in a new customer or two as well.

Do not forget to post a link to your website or blog on your social network profiles. If someone hears about your products on a social network, they will need to have access to more information and see what you use as a storefront before they can decide to buy anything.

Social Media Marketing

Writing is the key to getting the most out of social media marketing. Create a blog and write about any relevant content. There is no limit to the amount you can write on blogs, so do not hesitate to do so. If necessary, hire a dedicated writer to help you create content for your blog.

Do not be afraid to ask for help with your social media marketing. This is a huge market and there are consultants and designers who are more than capable of setting up a social media strategy and web for you. They are not inexpensive though, so be prepared to spend some money if you go down this path.

Social Media Marketing Strategy

Before developing a specific social media marketing strategy, figure out which social networking site you want to use. Each social networking site works differently, so it is important that your strategy will work with the site you pick. For instance, on Facebook you can create a poll, unlike most sites.

You really have to remember to respond to comments and reviews as fast, and as professionally, as you can. This simple gesture could turn your campaign into a real success. You should be especially prompt about responding to negative comments or reviews. If you don't say anything, the posts could hurt your reputation. A quick and positive response could resolve the issue, and leave a positive feeling in the end.

No one ever wants to see their marketing plan fail, but the beauty of social media marketing is that it can be rebuilt. The cost is so low, or often free, that you are welcome to experiment with new ideas and learn what works. This article detailed some of the important outlines for any successful SMM plan, and you should branch from them into your own unique style.


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How To Make Your House A Happy Home

There is no doubt that your home has a huge impact on your mood. It has been shown that a majority of time is spent within the home or workplace. If you work at home, your home settings are going to have even more to do with the way you feel. When you have a home that you love to retreat to, you will find that you are more resilient when life takes a wrong turn, as it often does. Learn more about transforming your home here.

Your ultimate goal with selecting components of your home decor is to create a space that is as comfortable as it is functional. Don't let an easily correctable problem rob you of the joy relaxing in your own should bring. Disregarding comfort as an important factor of your home will lower your day to day enjoyment of your home. Get rid of any furniture that is not good for your body. Make sure your storage areas are within easy reach. Making simple little changes at home, like replacing furniture that is uncomfortable, can really improve the quality of your life.

Reorganizing can work, but it too, has its limits. Regardless of how you rearrange the furniture and other items, you have not really changed the amount of space that exists. That is why adding an extension to your home is such a great idea. Even if the space that you add is only a little bit, you will find that added space to be advantageous.

Your home should be a happy, enjoyable place to live. Value-adding features like pools, hot tubs and saunas all make time spent at home much more appealing. Nonetheless, cheap options, such as adding a basketball court to the garage, can easily be done without spending too much money.

Check and see if your lighting could use an upgrade. It is easy to replace or update existing lighting fixtures. Take a look at options in a home supply store. You may find a lighting system that is both brighter and easier for you to use. New lighting fixtures will create an updated feeling in your home. You can fix most lighting fixtures by yourself.

Consider being a gardener. Find a location on your property that you can turn into a lush paradise of annuals and perennials. Or, consider landscaping the entire yard to make it an enjoyable haven. If you are not good with gardening, consider hiring someone to help you. A garden can provide several benefits to you, such as the capability of producing veggies and herbs, improvement of air quality, and a boost to your emotional well-being.

There are many ways to improve the external appearance of your home. Changing the roof or windows or painting the exterior of your home can make a big change in your home's appearance. Curbside appeal is something that you will appreciate everyday.

As your home is your haven from the world, don't underestimate the positive effects improvements can have on your general well-being and attitude. The home improvements you do can affect your emotional wellbeing as well as your property value.


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Terrific Mobile Marketing Tips

Do you find your business is well promoted mobile devices? Want to learn how to help improve it? If you are ready, then you have come to the right place. The tips that are listed in this article, contain advice on what you can do to create a better mobile marketing plan.

Do not use text abbreviations in your mobile marketing message. While it is acceptable for person to person communication, it looks unprofessional coming from a business. Also avoid using all caps in your message. Your consumers will feel like they are being yelled at. However, it is acceptable to use all caps in your call to action.

Make people want to join your mobile marketing campaign. Make customers aware of your mobile presence by placing information about your promotions on business cards, sales receipts, flyers and the like. Make customers exited about being involved with your mobile marketing promotions by making sure there are special deals just for them.

Keep setting expectations and keeping yourself safe, legally. After a person opts-in, or even during the process, inform them of how often they can get text messages from you. Also, give them an "opt-out" option if the messages are too frequent or if they want to avoid possible message charges. Always include the line, "standard rates may apply."

If you have a product to sell, and you are considering mobile commerce, think carefully. Mobile commerce requires a level of security and credit card processing feature to be in place. Implementing this can be costly to your business. Quite often, it might be easier for the customer to call you on their mobile phone to purchase, instead of clicking on a link to purchase.

Create an opt-in database. Don't sabotage your business by holding customers hostage. Allow customers to choose to be a part of your mobile marketing campaigns, and make opting-out an easy process. Customers don't mind receiving communication from you through their phone, but don't take advantage of the kindness they show, unless you want to lose them.

You should do your best to send personalized and targeted messages. Different groups of people are not going to be interested in the same products, and you will need to address people in different ways. Send a different message for each age group or niche you want to reach out to.

Mobile Marketing

Information you send out has to be meaningful if you expect to receive a meaningful response. Little reminders about nothing but your existence are annoying. So if you're contacting someone via mobile marketing, make sure that you have a worthy cause for doing so. It's not a lot to ask.

Research ways to offer one-touch purchasing options for your products and services. Your mobile marketing messages should provide an option to store payment information that can be easily recalled and presented at the touch of a button, which will ultimately increase sales and create a reputation for ease of use and efficiency.

Make sure to conduct a usability test before rolling out your mobile marketing campaign to your consumers. Ask friends, family, employees or all of the above to receive your messages, respond and ask for their honest opinion of the experience. This way you will make sure everything works to provide the best experience for your customers.

Mobile Marketing Company

To make sure your needs as an advertiser are met, take the time to find a mobile marketing company that's a good fit for you. Many companies specialize in marketing certain types of products or in certain aspects of mobile marketing, and may not excel at what you need them for.

See, that wasn't that hard to read through. After reading this article, you ought to be a bit excited to start experimenting and trying new things. Hopefully, these new ideas yield results that work for you. If not, try something else until you are pleased with the results. That's the best part about mobile marketing; it has endless possibilities.


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How To Choose Clothes

People say "clothes make a man". Without dwelling considerably into this topic an overall realization can be drawn. Clothes do help to build a proper impression. These represent the days of showmanship, in which the label of a product is seen prior to actually testing it. In these times it is vital to get the knowledge, if not abilities to choose the correct clothes for the various situations of our life.

There are numerous benefits of this, as the acceptable clothes helps with creating the impression that might be needed to impress the person taking that crucial interview. Clothes do not express the sense of fashion but is reflecting the personality of the people too. These are the thing that makes the whole idea of "How to choose clothes" essential. There are a few factors that are to be kept in mind while picking the clothes and getting the big names isn't just enough to serve the purpose which makes the whole matter of How to choose clothes essential.

Learning the type of body is the initial step in the process of choosing the clothes. People with a generous figure should stay away from wearing clothes that are too tight or short. They seem to accentuate the flab that one might be trying to hide all this time by putting on something tight. People with short necks need to try and avoid wearing clothes with collars. For individuals trying to attract the attention, clothes with shiny and larger prints is the right thing. People wanting to keep a low profile can invariably tone down and wear small printed clothes. Wearing a scarf hanging parallel to the legs would definitely give an impression of having long legs. These is possible correctly and to full effect only if one knows the type of body one has. The methods of How to choose clothes can get instead time saving and useful too.

A few things that are to be remembered include the need for evading large clothes for people with small figures. The bigger clothes usually hide the body shape. Ladies can always wear a belt to flaunt the shapely waist with out being too loud. While choosing the accessories one must be careful not to carry many accessories simultaneously. Besides choosing the clothes one must be wary about them while shopping. The type of care the clothes need is critical and reading the instructions is as important as choosing the clothes. The fabric needs an examination too. One should always check the level of elasticity, if needed at all as this influences the appearance as well. There are many reasons as we can see to pick the clothes properly, not to delight others with the sensation of fashion only but to create a long lasting impression of the person involved, which is essential in the different situations that one might run into in ones daily life. These are generally what make How to choose clothes such an important aspect in the daily life.


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Wednesday, January 25, 2012

The #1 Organizing Mistake

"I am an office supply junkie!

I love to go to the office supply stores and get all the matching organizers like pencil cups, paper trays, folders, covered memo boards...you get the picture.

It all looks so nice and neat in the store, and I can just imagine my stuff in them. I know that once I buy all this stuff, I will finally be organized and I can get on with my day."

Sound familiar? This is one of the most common mistakes we make - we confuse buying "stuff" to get organized with actually organizing our things. We waste tons of money on things that really won't help us get organized. Ask yourself this question, "Do you struggle with how to make that new organizing 'thingy' work with your stuff?" If the answer is yes, you purchased the wrong item. You can't buy yourself organized.

Truth of the matter is, most of us don't need to spend much money, if any at all, on organizational tools. The first thing you need to do when organizing your space is determine what you need BEFORE you go to the store. That way you will have a plan of what you will do with your new purchases and won't be swayed by great displays or helpful sales people.

For example, if you have a ton of paper on your desk that needs to get organized, what do you really need? Maybe just a box with hanging folders will do. Or maybe you have tons of receipts; maybe you just need an accordion file to organize those receipts for tax time. Whatever your organizational challenge is, take the time to analyze what you need first, then decide if you need to buy something to help you get organized.

If you already have too much organizational stuff, and it's just getting in the way, consider getting rid of it. You can either sell it at a garage sale, or invite some of your friends over for an office supply swap. That's a great way to recycle your unused items and get together with friends!

So, before you buy another organizational tool, follow these action steps:

1. Determine what particular challenge area you're going to work on.

2. Evaluate your challenge to find out what supplies you'll need to get organized.

3. Look at everything you have to see if you can use it to organize your stuff before you buy anything new.

4. If you have to buy something to get organized, make a list before you go shopping. To reduce impulse organizing buys, go online and shop for the one item you need and only purchase that item.


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Things You Need To Know About Article Marketing

Many people say that the pen is mightier than the sword, and as any successful article marketer can attest, the keyboard is stronger than them both. If you want to learn about different tips and tactics you can use in your article marketing campaign, here is some information you must read.

Create a checklist of at least five article directories that rank high in popular search engines. This will help you avoid the added cost of doing it yourself. It saves you time and money after you have taken the time to create the initial checklist that you can use.

You should use effective color schemes while advertising on the internet, because color may be all you have to catch their attention. If your colors flow well and mesh together to create a pleasing sight, people will be more inclined to check out your product. If your colors don't mix and they clash, then people will avoid your advertisement.

Before you market your article out on the internet using links, back links, social media and other options, have a trusted friend or family member look over the article first. Sometimes writers invest so much time with keywords or the article itself that they may miss something very simple like the using the wrong word in the wrong context.

Be creative with what you write. Particularly if you are writing multiple articles about the same topic, you do not want your readers to get bored. Try to write about the subject matter from a new angle or use a different theme in your writing. Your readers are more likely to look for new material from you if you do this.

If you have a lot of articles on a single topic, try combining them into an ebook. You can most likely splice them together without much effort and creating an ebook isn't a hard task at all. Best of all, you can then sell that ebook and have profits coming from that, as well as, the individual articles.

Article Marketing

One way to boost the exposure of an article marketing campaign is to secure appearances as a guest blogger. This is when you ask a blogger in your field if you can post an article to their blog. You need to have established a reputation for expertise and trustworthiness to try this. If you get a guest blogger spot, your article will be exposed to many new readers.

A great article marketing tip is to be patient. You won't make a lot of money just from writing a few articles. You might not even make much with fifty articles. Once you have at least a hundred articles, you might start noticing the money coming in.

Article Writing

Write articles that are related to your company. The more exposure you get, the better chance that you will achieve more flow into your website, so utilize article writing to describe the products and services that you offer. This will educate your customers on the specifics of your company, while leading to more traffic at your website.

One tip to consider when considering article marketing is to consider distributing your article writing to private contractors. This will help to multiply the amount of articles that you are able to create while multiplying your profits at the same time. It will also allow you to allocate your time to more lucrative projects.

After reading this information, you can now see that the tips dealing with article marketing are similar to tips relating to other types of marketing. The biggest difference is that these tips focus more intently on quality and distribution. Master these methods and watch your business expand by leaps and bounds.


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Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Online Dating Communication Advice For Men

So you've searched your favorite dating site and finally found someone that you'd like to spend the time writing a message to - that's great! Sending that first message can be a lot like approaching someone for the first time - a little nerve racking. Don't beat yourself up and check, then re-check the message you just sent like our friend Socially Awkward Penguin - check out our helpful advice to increase your chances of receiving a reply.

Read the profile before you send a message.

A lot of Internet daters use the "fire and forget" method of messaging people they're interested in. They'll enter their search criteria and message the people who pique their interest. If you expect to receive a message back, read the profile thoroughly and say something about it in the message. It's best to speak about the things you have in common and make sure to ask questions to show genuine interest.

Discuss specific interests and hobbies.

Making a connection through commonalities is quite possibly the best way to do so. Again, read the persons dating profile and find something in common with the person you're interested in. If there doesn't seem to be anything you have in common specifically (you both like watching movies), look for things that are similar. For example, if she likes biking and you like snowboarding, ask her if she has ever tried it. Spark his/her interest!

Avoid talking about looks and talk about common points.

Understand that while talking to a girl/guy, "Hey you're sexy," may be flattering in your mind, it groups you with all the other guys/girls who message the same thing. Physical compliments and viewed a lot like pick-up lines and doesn't leave a very good impression with the person you're trying to hook up with and may hurt your online dating presence.

Don't use automated winks or emoticons.

Show him that she's special and worth the time to talk to. Chances are that if the woman or man you're sending them to receives a lot of them from different guys or girls and as I said before, you don't want to be just another fish in the sea - you want to be someone who appears interested.

I hope that these communication tips will help you out in your online dating adventures. If you're still looking for an Internet dating site that fits your needs, try free online dating at Romanticity. Romanticity features customizable profiles and interest groups to find exactly who you're looking for.


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Lessons On Attachment and Aversion In Relationships

The relations between human beings has been interesting me lately. During the last year I have had more conflict with people I have considered my friends than I have had in over ten years. Maybe I need to reconsider my definition of friendship. I have experienced conflict in the work place by walking off a job in anger and being fired from another one. I lost a few friends in that process. This also resulted in the loss of a lifestyle that had supported me for almost two decades. In my personal life, I had a huge disagreement with my sister and we didn't speak for months. I had another falling out with one of my closest girlfriends and we didn't speak for over a year. However, both of these personal relationships are on the mend and stronger than before.

On top of all this, there were two older men, one being a decade older than me, the other two decades older, both in my spiritual community, that wanted to date me. I had been very honest with both of them and told them I wasn't feeling the same for them and that I just wanted to be friends. I thought this was understood, but apparently they didn't understand my words or take me seriously. Needless to say, one of these friendships has been ruined and I have no mournful feelings about that loss because he began getting mean, say very inappropriate things to me and scared me. When I get scared, I get mad. My friendship with the other gentleman is on very rocky grounds now. I'm feeling sad about the possible loss of his friendship because I really care about him as a friend and as my peer.

I am the common denominator in all of these relationships so I have been thinking that it is something I need to take a look at. I take full responsibility for quitting my job without notice and getting fired from the other one even though there were extenuating circumstances that were completely out of my hands. I have tried to repair the friendships lost from these work situations. Some tell me they have no hard feelings but I feel a huge distance between us nonetheless and I am saddened by their absence in my daily life. There are others that have made it very clear to me that they are not willing to befriend me again and have severed contact with me no matter how hard I try. This is much more difficult to deal with. I'm uncomfortable when people don't like. In my personal life, I let my anger come between my sister and I. With my friend whom I didn't speak with for a year, I share the blame. Oddly, I have gotten along better with my family than I ever have before.

The lesson I am learning from this is that everything is impermanent. Everything changes whether we want it to or not. Just like the ebb and flow of the tides in life, some friendships aren't meant to last. Some people share our path for a short time while others remain with us for years and years. I cannot be attached to what was, or feel responsible for how people react. I have never claimed to be perfect, nor the best communicator. I am trying to speak my truth more clearly and remain strong when others try to use their words to hurt me or to project their feelings on me. Self doubt will come up but I have to remember that we are all just doing the best we can. We are all at different levels in our awareness and some people are more conscious than others. I must continue to be myself and try to silently send those people love, like the Buddhist Metta contemplation. (Please read the article I wrote titled "Cultivating Friendliness" to find out more about the Metta Meditation.)

As long as we are true to ourselves and speak the truth to others what more can we do? I am not one to yell when I am angry. My whole nervous system gets very rattled when others yell at me and I have tried to avoid confrontation as best I can. Yet the more I try to avoid it, the more conflict seems to come my way. This reminds me of the yogic teaching of attachment and aversion, raga and dvesha, respectively.

We are attached to what feels good and we avoid what doesn't. It makes perfect sense. Yet when something keeps repeating itself in a negative manner, we must really self reflect and search for the answers that lie hidden within us. Self depreciation is not the answer. Not all of these failed relations are fault of my own. Like I said earlier, I take responsibility for my part in them. Of course, the more we push something away, the more it plays out. These episodes keep getting more intense until we are willing to take an honest look into the root cause of negative relations. Once we become brutally honest with ourselves, we may not like what we see. This is why I think we bury our feelings inside, ignore them or simply walk away without resolving the issue. My tendency is to walk away. I find it hard to talk things out when they get heated and angry. I'm flight not fight.

But how can we grow and become better human beings if we continue to run from confrontation or face it in anger? We must learn to deal with stress and control our feelings of fight or flight which are directly related to the sympathetic nervous system. When our nervous system is in this state, we are reacting to stress and preparing for danger. Yet we become unable to grow and repair. As we learn to remain calm, we become better equipped to deal with tension, aggression and anger. The practice of yoga and pranayama (breathing exercises) are tools we can use to remain calm and steady in the face of challenge. However, we are humans with emotions and not robots. We are living, breathing, feeling creatures. We must learn to treat each other with more sensitivity and kindness and be willing to talk to each other because everyone has a different perspective.

I am thankful for all these life experiences because they invite me to be honest, sensitive and calm which teaches me to grow into a better human being. After all, life is given to us to awaken from our dream.

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Advice For Making An Online Dating Profile

First you join a dating site and then you create your profile. Dating sites will usually have you create a username and password before you get to the part of the profile you write yourself. Most people have an 'epic fail' when they need to describe themselves. You have to be willing to describe yourself or no one is going to pique the interest of other users. Check out the tips below that will help you make a new online dating profile.

Don't leave your profile blank -- when other dating site users just see that you didn't bother to type out at least two to three sentences about yourself, they may believe you aren't being sincere or tooserious about finding a date. This is probably one of the largest ways to turn off people from your profile. Also, don't be vague and be exact about what you're looking for so you are not messaged by other users who don't understand what you want.

Describe yourself in a unique fashion -- do not take the route every other user takes when they describe themselves. Choose some things that will set you apart from others. Nearly all dating site users say they're funny and smart - even if you truly are, avoid putting things like that in your online dating profile. Personalize your profile so it's a reflection of you that will attract people you're searching for. When searching, see what they have put in their profiles, this will give you a way to size up what has already been said.

Avoid being dishonest about yourself -- this type of insincerity is very obvious and your profile will be passed over. Be completely honest and be yourself. Being dishonest will lead you to meeting people you probably don't want to meet. Trust is one of the most searched for values in a relationship and it is the most important.

Take a good photo -- the first thing that people look at when they look at your profile is your Internet dating photo. There have been many case studies in which profiles get a majority of the views because of the types of pictures users upload. Know that just showing off a lot of skin will not get you more views, in fact that will just attract the wrong type of people. When taking your photo you should look into the camera and smile. In addition to that, pictures where you are doing something interesting generally get even more views and messages.

After you have set up your profile and uploaded your photo, start searching to find people you are interested in. Do not forget to use the filter settings to weed out any matches that don't fit your criteria. Once you do see the special someone who makes your heart flutter, shoot them a message! You could miss out on your opportunity to meet someone special if you wait around for them to make the first move..

Remember that most users on dating sites will search for people that are online first, that way if they send a message they can hopefully get a reply soon.

I hope this advice will assist you in finding love online. If you're still looking for a website to browse for singles, try this free online dating site. Be yourself, visit the dating site you like often, and contact the members you feel are a good match for you. The more online dating you do, the better your chances of finding someone quickly! Good luck in your search!

Another bit of help I'd like to give you is niche dating. Niche dating sites are for people who would like to search for people who have the same interests. A Christian dating site has members seeking other singles that have the same and would be an excellent start in finding someone that matches your interests.


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How to Make Him Call You

Did you have a great time with someone you met? Did you get to talk about the things going on your life? Was everything wonderful as you thought it would be? Did you feel like everything was so perfect? Did your heart melt when he was talking to you, holding you and spending the whole evening with you? Did he promise he call you the very next day?

You decide to put off everything that you had planned just to wait for his phone call but you realize it's gotten late and the phone never rang. You look at your email inbox or your text messages and realize there's nothing from him. Now what?

You wonder why the night was so beautiful to you but not to him. You feel like contacting him instead of waiting for him to call you. Don't think you are alone in this feeling/thinking? Tons of women are experiencing this problem each day. Many feel that the circumstance is discouraging but it's actually not. You can do things that will make him get his phone and dial your number. What do you need to do to make this happen?

What next? You are sure you like him but not sure what he thinks about you. How to proceed from here. Is there a way to know more about him as you like to get to know him more. If he will call then you will have that chance but now you wonder why he has not called.

If you are left wondering why hasn't he called, you probably have already thought about calling him. Have you always been the one to initiate call after your dates? You may automatically pick up the phone and dial his number without even thinking about it. Do you think he doesn't call because he is too busy with his job or just in general busy? What can you do? Try not to call him. Don't call him even after you have been out with him.

How does this work? Believe it or not, he'll begin to wonder why he hadn't heard from you. He'll want to know what is going on. Women turned to bear the burden of relationship communication. However, if you always do the initiating, you'll be doing it so long as the relationship lasts. If you go out and call every time after the date, he'll be waiting on you to call him. Break the cycle: again, don't call him!


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Online Dating Safety Tips: Common Sense & Common Cons

Online dating is an exciting way to meet new friends and that special someone, but some people don't always have common sense when talking or when they first have a meeting. By following a few safety guidelines and recognizing the common cons that occur in the online dating world, you can keep yourself protected.

Remember to use common sense when dating online.

First, we must recognize the truth: anyone from anywhere can create a profile with a picture they found on Google image search. If anyone asks you for your personal or financial information, a huge red flag should come up. Never give out any information that identifies you to a person you don't know. Information that scam artists need to steal your identity include your name, social security number, bank account information, credit card information, address and phone number.

Common Cons - Things to Look For

Messaging on the Internet is tough, especially in cases where you're limited to 140 characters. While you're dating online you may come across some of the things I'm about to list below. If you do happen to see these things, be careful when talking with the person because it may be a dating scam.

- Messages to you seem vague or doesn't match the conversation you are trying to have.
- Receiving messages right after you send them, no matter what time of day you sent them.
- After a quick exchange the other person tells you they wish to talk on another messaging service, or exchange e-mail addresses to talk, share pictures, or view webcam.
- Asks you for money because: It's an emergency and only you can help.
- The person was just widowed and is asking for money or help.
- Wants you to donate to a "cause."
- They claim to be traveling, living, working aboard, or deployed.
- Asks for your address so they can send you gifts (flowers, etc).
- They talk about finding your profile or sending your message as "written in the stars," "destiny" or "fate."
- You see that their picture has been used in another profile. You could save their picture and use a reverse image search to find the source of the image.
- You suspect that their photo has been edited or modified in some way. Scam artists use Photoshop to change photos in order to make them more appealing.

When you find singles in your area that you want to chat with, make sure to follow these guidelines to stay safe when you meet.

- Don't have the person pick you up at your own house.
- Inform someone of where you're going and when they should expect you back.
- Keep your phone with you and on wherever you go in case of an emergency.
- Meet somewhere public that has many people and try to stay there.
- Be cautious when you drink.
- Don't assume the person you're with is safe.
- Avoid the perception of any obligation by going 'dutch' on the bill.
- Don't bring your date back to your home, or go to theirs - go to a hotel.
- Use a condom.
- Stay aware of the situation until the date is over and you have returned home safely.


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Monday, January 23, 2012

How To Get A Business Analyst Job

What Is A Business Analyst?

There are multiple sectors that business analysts can work in including the telecommunications sector and so the usage of the term "business analysis" may differ based on the sector you are working in.

A business analyst is someone who assesses the design of institutions and assesses their business processes.

Business analysts can assess the business process for any domain including key business operations like sales, accounting and systems with a view to improving their efficiency.

After a comprehensive analysis, the business analyst may offer constructive solutions on how to improve the business operation.

Business analysis principles can be put to use for the benefit of any company, regardless of the domain.

Notwithstanding, IT business analysts are some of the more popular domains for business analysts.

Do Business Analysts Need An Information Technology Background?

Business Analysts are not programmers though they share skills like Use Cases.

Though Business Analysts who specialize in the software development arena may develop more database skills than their colleagues in other sectors like pharmaceutical, this is not a core competency.

What Skills Do Business Analysts Need?

Business Analyst jobs need soft skills more than software developer jobs.

While computer programmers are hired for technical skills, business analysts are hired for their verbal communication skills, negotiation skills, meeting facilitation skills.

Business Analysts pay attention to requirements management and business case document.

How To Begin A Business Analyst Career? Starting a job as a business analyst is just like starting out in any other job: It takes training and diligence.

The Stages To Becoming a Business Analyst?

Business Analysts come from all works of life like Technology and Life Sciences, so there is no unique industry that can monopolize the industry.

Because of this, the first, initial step to becoming a business analyst career involves bridging the gap between your current career and your new business analyst career.

Start with a simple Bing Search on the phrase business analyst.

Once you have reviewed multiple search results on the subject, you will begin to develop a feel of the business analysts roles.

Another great start is to search on Monster and review career descriptions for business analysts.

These career descriptions will leave you with a summary of the education institutions are looking for in business analysts.

Compare the skills on the employment postings to the experience you already have and then come up with a list of skills you are missing. You may be nearer than you thought.

Fill in the missing blanks by taking classes that will bring your experience up to date.

Another way to close the gap is to consult business analysts about what a typical day looks like.

How To Network As A Business Analyst?

If you are in school, you may ask your teachers and colleagues for more information on companies hiring business analysts.

If you are presently working, you can network with co-workers and supervisors in other sections for leads on business analysis jobs.

In addition, contemplate participating in social media websites like Twitter or professional organizations like Toastmasters International.

How To Get Business Analyst Experience?

Get as much hands-on experience and then rewrite your resume.

In revising your resume, make certain that you use business analysis jargon found from the review of business analyst job postings.

How To Find A Business Analyst Job

It's time to find your business analyst career.

Since you have to crawl before you walk, find an beginner position that permits you to build up your skills in the business analysis field.

Look for entry-level business analyst jobs on premier job sites like Monster.

Don't be daunted by any job posting.

As a rule of thumb, apply for any position that matches up to 60% of the job description.

How To Succeed At Business Analyst Interviews?

Before the job interview, practice for two types of questions: answering questions about technical skills and the other is addressing questions about your work experience.

Afterward, rehearse the replies with a friend.

At the interview, share your experiences using important stories.

Be ready to address any doubts the hiring supervisor may have.

Moreover, use the job interview to learn about the business analyst position.

How To Handle Business Analyst Job Offers?

Instead of focusing on your salary, concentrate on the opportunity to get more experience in the business analysis industry.

Continue to study and advance your business analysis knowledge.

Don't forget that the more you learn, the more your prospects for advancement as a business analyst will be.


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Where Is The Best Place To Meet Single Women?

Contrary to popular thought is not at the bar! But I thought she would be more likely to talk to me if she has had some alcohol? That assumption is absolutely accurate. Unless you are simply looking to have non-committed, unemotional, and regretful intercourse with a woman this should be the last place you go to meet women!

Where Should I Go To Then?

Instead I would encourage you to go check out your local coffee shop, depending on your age hang out around the local college, online dating sites, I even heard of guys meeting girls on Facebook. And don't ever forget you can always go to the mall.

Why Is This Better Than The Bar?

The reason is because at the bar women get approached and hit on all the time! Additionally at the bar women are going to have their guard up against guys, unless they're looking for someone to sleep with. This unfortunately is because there is one creepy guy after another that come up and offer to buy them a drink.

Why Are These Other Venues A Better Place To Meet Women?

It is simple because very few other men approach girls in these settings. If you do then you will be seen as different than every other guy, which is a good thing.

Additionally you will be seen as confident since you don't need alcohol to approach a girl. We have all heard how attractive this confidence in a man is.

Lastly, women don't want to have a story of how they met their boyfriend or significant other hanging out at the bar. Instead women want to have a better story to tell their girlfriends about how they met you and if you approach her in the bookstore, on the street, or anywhere else she will be much happier with that story!

You Will See Your Success Rate Skyrocket!

Rather than compete with all the other creepy guys and approach her in a bar, why not eliminate 99% of your competition? As I mentioned very rarely do women get approached by guys at other settings than a bar. Therefore if you approach women at the grocery store, in the mall, walking down the street you will see your success rate shoot through the roof because you won't have any competition.

Stop watching the other guy get girls. Take action today and end your lonely nights and weekends. You can find someone that you truly enjoy spending time with and sharing your life with. However at the bar you are probably only going to end a lonely night and believe it or not these experiences usually leave you feeling even more alone and more anxious to meet a good woman!


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What Men Want In Women - Get Inside His Mind

The two sexes seem to be so different but really are quite alike, men always wonder what exactly is going through a woman's mind. Men seldom seem to understand a woman's thought process. The same is true for her; she always wonders what men really want from women. To understand your man you should recognize that both men and women are actually looking for the same things, though they state it quite differently.

What men really want - Confident

As the statements from men and women on their likes and dislikes about each other differ, often relationships hit a rough patch. Most men want a girl who is comfortable with herself, is entertaining and a person who likes to take the new way. The women assume that men look for a certain kind of females and women try to be that kind of woman, some actually faking it. Men lose interest quite fast when they can see that the woman is not real.

What men really want - Be Confident

Rather than worry too much about what do men exactly want from women, she should concentrate on being herself and not trying to be someone she is not. One of the first things a man notices is the level of confidence in a woman. Woman should be genuine, men respect and love that, his interests wanes as soon as he finds that the female is not what she is trying to be, or is not happy with herself. Men are attracted to woman who are in complete control of themselves and are happy to be what she really is. In actual fact, men don't care about the flaws so much, men find woman who don't care about flaws attractive. It attracts a man because he loves a challenge so he thinks it intriguing that a woman can be herself without any excuses for her frailties.

What men really want - Humorous

When considering what men really want from women it is important to know that men place a lot of importance on having a good time with their partners, men should enjoy the time they spend with the woman, this does not mean that they should have the same interests; it just means that the women should be able to laugh and be humorous and should be game for some real fun. In short she should not be a spoilsport, she need not be a hitchhiker or stuntwomen, but she should be able to follow him and suggest him some adventures. She should be forward looking and outgoing with a pleasant personality. Men really value that.

What men really want - Kindness

The other criterion for men is that women should be caring and should have a lot of kindness. Men don't like being berated; it sets their testosterone going so they would see it as a challenge and fight it out. A small challenge is ok, but kicking a man when down is not done. Men love women who are happy and at peace with themselves and are assured about things in their life.

Do You Have These Kinds of Qualities?

The real answer to make men want you is a bit of adventure, a lot of honesty and confidence with a kind caring heart and a sense of humor. Always keep in mind not to overdo things. Being overconfident or brutal makes the man run away, so does faking. Find out how to make men loves you by visiting http://www.howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.com


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How Interpersonal Skills Can Help You To Get Ahead In Life

When a person has good interpersonal skills he or she is more likely to get ahead in life. People with these skills tend to be more successful in business as well as in their personal lives.

Few if any people are born with good interpersonal skills. They can be learned and they can be honed.

Here are a number of things that you can do to improve your interpersonal skills:

• One of the keys to developing a healthy interpersonal relationship is being enthusiastic. No one likes to hang around with or talk to gloomy people who are often lost in their own world. Instead, if you actively interact with people and make them feel that you are interested in communicating with them they will be more open to what you say. When you are positive and enthusiastic about your life and what you are saying you will build rapport more easily and develop more intimate relationships.

• If you want to be a good presenter you must be a good listener. While most people love to talk, in order to be understood and appreciated you must pay attention to what other people are saying. Whether you agree with them or not, you need to understand the message that they are trying to convey.

• If you are overly alert you can give people the impression that you are nervous. But if you seem lethargic then no one will want to pay you any mind. You need to find a happy medium between the two. People with good interpersonal skills are relaxed. They don't fidget, tap their toes or twiddle with their hair. Although they are not board-stiff, neither do they slouch or have hunched shoulders.

• If you disagree with someone there is no need to shout and argue. Disagreements should not be accompanied by expressions of anger or high-pitched shrieks. Those actions will only escalate the argument and not solve it. Instead, disagreements should be constructively analyzed by all parties involved. That's the way that mutually agreeable arrangements can be made.

• It's important that you smile frequently and maintain eye contact when you listen or talk to people. If you look people up and down when talking to them you will inevitably irritate them.

• Listen to constructive criticism without becoming upset. Analyze it and see if the criticism has any merit.

• Don't overtly or publicly criticize another person. You may want to gently point out their faults in a private conversation and tell them why you feel that way. And if you do, make sure that you offer at least one positive suggestion about how they can improve.

• Do not be overly assertive. Although a certain measure of assertiveness attests to good interpersonal skills, if you are in a management position you need to remember that micro-managing people will only be a burden to them and to you.

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