Wednesday, January 4, 2012

How to Make Better Decisions

Copyright (c) 2012 Karen Chai Kar Siang

We get by life making lots of decisions everyday both consciously and unconsciously at times. However, to improve the quality of life, it is necessary to make better decisions each time. There could be a number of decisions to make even in a single day. And to know how to make them effectively for the best is crucial; this is because almost all decisions impart some sort of follow-up actions that require additional resources such as time and money. Here are several types of decisions that we make from day to day; for instance, subscribe to becoming a vegetarian, the decision to keep a pet or to embrace a new discipline, etc.. It can also be simpler things such as buying groceries from the grocery store, making a phone call or sending a text message to a friend, etc. Having a good purpose and building clear objectives beforehand therefore would greatly help in decision making as to no matter how seemingly trivial a task is, still a decision needs to be in place.

Decisions can be sparked when having a personal agenda, a common problem in a group that needs to be solved, meeting family obligations or adhering to social responsibilities. Therefore, decisions should always be carefully made as it may affect the people involved in that decision. Clear goals help people understand better the need for those decisions to be made in the first place in order to help them stay determined to follow through the necessary activities involved in that decision until the end. Decisions made can be justified easily when there is a problem that needs to be solved right away; good decisions help to solve them or keep those problems away for sometime. Along the processes of decision making, we may get distracted by having too many options or having too many ideas or expressed opinions. Despite considering more options may lead to more preferences, however, often time lost is rather irreplaceable. So, it is good to make decisions in considerable amount of time by considering the significance of those decisions carefully. Think through just enough before deciding, for example turn simple decisions like buying monthly groceries into a preset routine. This reduces the need to decide on the less important things in life leaving more energy span to decide on the more important things in life.

A decision can go wrong at anytime. This happens often enough, and when it does occur, it is important to contemplate where things have gone wrong and apply remedial actions where possible. A decision should be taken into serious considerations to ensure that it is a conscientious one. For instance, when a decision is being put to challenge, make sure the answers to those decisions are readily answerable in a format based on acceptable norm. When handling the more important decisions in life such as those having long term effects, take time to ponder by assessing the after-thought processes and consider the various consequences of those decisions. A decision is effective when the activities that lead to its fruition can be practically accomplished. A decision that can not be managed may have been an ineffective decision that had not been assessed thoroughly enough. Therefore, be as clear as possible to know the underlying reasons for making those decisions. This prevents us from losing our ways before the goals of a decision can be achieved.

Good decisions are important in life to help build a better future. While good decisions may not always form a rationale to other people, the simplest way to know that a decision is being rightly made is that it converts to positive feelings knowing that somethings are on the right track. Even though there can be a lot of difficulties along the way, eventually happiness may result from real positive outcomes. For this reason, decisions require lots of accountability measures, clear thoughts and willful determination. As we get encouraged by the people on the decisions that we make, naturally the processes building along would be upheld leading to more positive feelings. But when we get discouraged, it may be good to counter balance against those decisions for a reality check. Importantly, when a decision is being shared, remember to share it's responsibiliy as well. Make clear and simple enough decisions to allow its members to share its responsibilities that tag along. Decisions keeps us going in life; so do not stop to make them despite mistakes. Decisions that help us realise our mistakes may be more valuable than those that provided a smooth sail.


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