If you find you have trouble communicating with men on a deeper level, this article is for you. Read on to find out the best way to connect and talk through issues with them on a deeper level without making them run for the hills.
First, we look at the power of deep communication skills. If you don't have a deep connection with your man, he will never open up to you and eventually the relationahip will fail. To win his heart you build an emotional bridge to his heart by having a safe and sexy connection with him.
So the words to make a guy fall in love with you? You need to share your sentiments and open up to him. Not in a needy way just an honest way. How many times have you been in the position of trying to please the other person in the vain hope that your will also have your needs met too by doing so? It doesn't happen and is the way to make yourself feel miserable.
In order to have a great relationship on a level playing field, express your needs and desires in a way which he understands. He will want to meet your needs to and willl feel inspired to do so if you are gentle in your language and the way you express yourself. You need to do this for your own soel worth rather than being a permanent people pleaser which will totally drain you.
If you show him your soft feminine and gentle side, he will crave the chance to take care of you. It will fill him with desire to provide and take care of you. If you spend your whole time moaning at him, he will feel like he is back in school or being talked to by his mother.
Have you seen the commercials on TV where they have the cute dogs that have been abused and treated cruelly? They break your heart don't they? Do you feel like you want to give money to that charity? I know I do. So imagine the same Ad with someone in a suit demanding money from you. I know I would give any money to that charity. You want the other person to want to help you.
One recent study revealed that men who were shown photos of women in vulnerable poses were highly arroused by these women compared to seeing women in stronger stances. I don't think this is because men like weak women; it's because vulnerability creates compassion, which can lead to arousal for men because sex and love are tightly interwoven for them.
When you are ready to express yourself to him, make sure you use a soft voice, relaxed body language and look him straight in the eyes when you do it. He will feel a deep emotional connection with you.
In the past my inability to focus on unbuttoning my heart for men and instead targeting them as projects, made men feel controlled and managed. When you can stop focusing on him and start listening to your feelings like a seashell to the ear--hearing your inner depth and emotional ocean--you can lure a man in. You become the sea siren singing her song of emotion and spiritual self-discovery, and he's compelled to come closer…
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