Great Conversation Starters - Than What?

OK-- you downloaded some great conversation starters. You have in your mind-- some super pick up lines. You read some great article on how to flirt.

You are locked and loaded! Nothing can keep you back.

You have carefully chosen some funny pick up lines:

• "Have you every cried because you were so happy?"
• Or how about, "Do you ever sing in the shower?"
• You could really make points by saying something like, "Can Crop Circles be square?"

Man, you have dazzled her. How could she not be impressed with your witty opening remarks. But, now what? Whose turn is it to say something? Wow, this is uncomfortable.

OK-- let's take it from the top. Do these lines ever work? Sure, they do - if it is your intent to have a funny beginning (Nothing wrong with that), but there must be more to a conversation than just an opening remark.

Look at yourself-- and ask if you are confident enough with your conversing skills to carry on a witty conversation-- after that great beginning. You know, this is not meant to be a silly offensive question. The facts are most people have a real lack of social skills. That can probably be attributed, at least in part, to the twitters, text messaging, face book, etc

. Now if you really want to stand out-- you must acquire good solid conversational skills. While those clever opening funny pick up lines might get a few laughs, if you are a one-trick pony-- and have nothing left-- you will be pretty embarrassed.

Do you ever remember James Bond saying a one liner - and then being stuck as what to say next? If you can converse well - charmingly and with wit - you don't need any props. You will stand out - and reap huge dividends in many ways.

• Pick up women
• Make a good impression on your banker when you are going for a loan
• Contract negotiations
• Absolutely any personal contact, regardless of the objective

For example, here are a few tips on flirting, regarding just the one aspect of eye contact:

• Keep eye contact for no more than 5-6 seconds; any longer is kind of creepy
• You need to lock eyes three times before the person (the recipient of your attention) catches on-- that you are flirting with her.

How about the proven technique of 'touching '?

• Touch their shoulder gently while passing
• Lightly touching their arm, while enjoying a laugh

OK - these few tidbits are pretty neat. Just suppose you had more than just 3-4-5. Imagine if you had a wealth of secret information that would allow you to be at ease - in any circumstance? Your self-confidence would soar - to unimaginable heights - and your social life would know no boundaries.

Your life could absolutely take a dramatic turn-- don't you think?


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Ron is a master communicator and has extensive experience in being in social situations where many are strangers to one another. It is this type of environment that offers the most opportunities at many levels. His sites deal with conversation in and around a Dinner Party environment. You will find his site: http://funpartygamesforadults.com both enlightening and entertaining.


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