This transition in life is an important step that I would argue most men never fully complete. I believe this is evident by our divorce rate of roughly 50%, if you then factor in all the unhappy marriages, at best you have about a one in four chance of happiness.
Most men never fully achieve this step because they are unwilling to do the work and instead settle for a woman that they are not truly happy with. It is a difficult step but when it is completed you are able to attract women and can choose which women you want to date. I feel very strongly that this will increase your likelihood of being happy in your marriage and have a lasting marriage because you will have many more options or women to choose from.
Let me share a recent experience of mine. I had a long day at work and went to the local bar for a couple drinks to unwind. I sat at the bar which was mostly empty except for a few groups of people. I was about 3 sips into my beer when a girl asked me what I was drinking.
I must tell you I wasn't looking my best at the time, as I had no intention of meeting anyone that night, I hadn't shaved, put in my contacts, and was wearing a baseball hat. Nevertheless I responded and quickly realized that she didn't really care what I was drinking but instead was trying to initiate a conversation. I then asked her where she was from?
We got to talking and she is a very smart girl who is currently getting her law degree. Her mother was actually the international model for the fast food restaurant Wendy's. She is outgoing, intelligent, and very personable. I forgot to mention very attractive.
As I finished my beer and despite not looking my best I asked if she wanted get together sometime? She replied that she did which I had anticipated from the many small and often unnoticed signs that women will give you when they are attracted and interested. It will naturally help your success with women if you can discover and learn these signs, and it will help you avoid rejection.
This was an average night and a not so average girl. The point is you never know when or where you'll meet somebody that you really connect with and when you have success, exchange numbers and plan to get together again, it is the greatest feeling it the world! It affirms that you are a man that is capable, and attractive to women and is very important to self esteem and the feeling of masculinity. However just days earlier I had asked a girl out and was rejected which never makes you feel good, even if they just have a boyfriend and you have learned that it is a natural result of being single and actively dating.
It reminds me of a popular movie called Vanilla Sky starring Tom Cruise, his best friend in the movie gave a speech about how you can't have the sweet without the sour after Tom Cruise had stolen his best friends date from the party. The idea behind his speech was with rejection from women and failure you won't be able to appreciate and really enjoy when you do have success.
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