It seems that everyone is in a constant search for success. From the moment we are born, we strive to succeed in any endeavour we aim to accomplish. Some appear to be equipped with more talent or brains, but these do not guarantee them of sure success.
Being successful is something you work at. It starts in the mind and heart, and slowly develops into an attitude. A lot of times, we are already in its midst, yet we fail to realize it.
So how does one develop a winning attitude so vital to true success? Here are a few tips:
Know how to be happy. If you are unhappy right now with what you're doing, where you're at and how things are going, then there's a huge chance that it will be difficult for you to be truly successful. You may achieve it - but it wouldn't be as sweet; you may have fame, glory and money but you will feel empty inside despite. If you are still on your way towards fulfilling it, your unhappiness and inability to be contented will make it difficult for you to reach your goal. Distractions and thoughts of doing something you enjoy will fill your mind, and delay your success. Learn to be happy and search for that which will make you so.
Know how to motivate yourself. No one else can push you to success better than your own self. It is what we have inside of us which will motivate us to push ahead with mush determination. Only we know what the deepest desires of our heart are - and these act as triggers to keep us going even when times hit hard. Remember - planning and dreaming of success is the easy part. What's harder is how to motivate ourselves to keep on going until its fulfillment.
Know that success is not instant. When you are successful in one area of your life, it's easy to neglect other areas if you devote all your attention to the other. Success comes one step at a time - we all know that hard work in all aspects of your life is the key.
Know how to deal with criticism. Remember that the road to success is not a smooth one. There will be a lot of potholes that will test your determination. Not everyone will push you or motivate you - there will be those who will pull you down and fill your mind with negativity which can discourage you. Realise that these criticisms, negative feedback and pessimism altogether serve a purpose - they help you be stronger. You need to be resilient and learn to get up after a setback or disappointment. Know that all your triumphs are useless if you will let all the minor and irritating stuff get to you. Don't be the kind of person who lets negativity overpower all optimism. Real successes are not such.
Know how to relax. As important as motivation, rejuvenation is certainly a key to success. Learn to sit back and relax, take time to recoup your drained motivation or recharge your weary and bored determination. Being able to recuperate from stressful situations is essential to moving on and being more well-equipped for even more challenging situations. Sleep, watch a movie, play games with your kids - they all help you realize that life is not worth losing over success.
Know how to step out of your comfort zone. True success is knowing how to do things even if they are beyond the realm of your comfort. Staying where you are, just because it is the safe thing to do will never get you anywhere close to your dreams. Instead, think of the unknown and the risks that come with it as sources of excitement. Like the popular saying goes, "if you keep on doing what you're doing, then you'll keep on getting what you're getting." That explains it all.
True success is something you work for - it is the end result of hard work, proper motivation and a good attitude. You are not born with a success instinct - you search for it and work on developing it. The sooner you realize this, the easier it is to take the first step towards its discovery.
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Michael Griffiths is the CEO and Founder of Secrets Of A Super Life, providing individuals with personal development strategies to increase their purpose, passion, happiness and life fulfilment. For your free life success pack please visit http://www.mysuperlifetoday.com
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