If you have been been with someone for 20+ years like me, your love life is zilch. And it's not because you don't love your husband, it's just life changed. Between your business schedule and children, you and your partner might have misplaced that sizzle you had when you first came across each other. You recall that initial kiss and the first time you touched each other. The fact that you could not keep your hands off each other and you always wanted to be together. Yep..those were the days. But those days do not have to be behind you. Let's face it, you won't have that same feeling you had when you first meet and your relationship maybe mundane, but you can reclaim some of that spark. And for some of us, the history you have together may make it so much sweeter. But that lost spark happens to the best of us, whether we met a few months ago or longer. Things happen; you get lured into a regular pattern and then the spark vanishes. Let's examine the particular ways we can add
some zing to that spark that vanished.
There are many ways to do this without having to sell an arm and a leg. You and your partner can go on a date without the kids. You can also spend some quality time as a couple walking at night, at the park or doing something both of you love that you have not done in a long time. Ultimately,unless disaster strikes, we end up back home and this is where you can actually make things spark. Remember date night and spending time together is setting the mood for better things to come.
Men are visual beings, always have been and invariably will be. They imagine the same way women do but with a difference. Most women fantasize about love and being intimate with your partner is the passionate condition of it. Being intimate, most men see this as a process and that movement is much better with someone they love. Most men love their wives and would not dream of cheating on them, but they don't have the identical romantic need that women do. Reminds me of an old saying, men are dogs.
Now, let's focus on adding a little oomph! to our monotonous love life. Again, you need to keep in mind that men are visional beings, so what better way to add spark to your love life with sexy costume lingerie? Sexy costume lingerie is the ideal pick me upper and it's low cost to boot. I know, I know, I've said it myself. I'm too old and don't have the body for this. There must be some other way. The spark that you are trying to recapture is the spark you see in his eyes when you wear something gorgeous and sexy. It's that excited look he gets when he captures a glimpse of you in that sensuous something. I'm not talking about your regular run of the mill lingerie; I am speaking of sexy costume lingerie.
Set the ambience ladies, dress as a sexy police officer, a sexy nurse or better yet a French maid! The best thing about sexy costume lingerie is that it's not that revealing and can hide problem areas. And I have always made a point of telling you ladies to make sure you complete the look by fixing your hair, wearing make-up and a pair of pumps. If this is too embarrassing for some of you, lower the lights and light some candles. Having a dim room does wonders for our inhibitions. Most men would desire to see their partners in great sexy costume lingerie. Not only is it fun for him, but it can be enjoyable for you as well. You may like it if you try.
There are lingerie stores that sell sexy costume lingerie, but if you are like me, the thought of walking into these stores is slightly embarrassing to say the least. Some of you may not have a issue with that, in which case, more power to you. The best thing about buying from a retail establishment is you can try it on, I think. Online stores offer a wider range to choose from, but it has its draw back. The size may run from one extreme to the other, too small or too large. The way it is made and the material may be another issue. When purchasing online, make sure that you get free shipping and the return policy is generous. When planning a special night, keep in mind the number of days it takes to receive items in and the possibility that you may have to return it.
As always ladies, have fun.
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